Our oldest, Alex, has fallen in love recently, and he's fallen HARD. It's kind of bittersweet for a Mother to realize her son has found another female to love and care for. I know it's what happens when our children grow up, but that doesn't make it any easier for those of us who are put aside.
Alex was introduced to his new lady love by someone who was hoping they'd hit it off and become a life-long couple, and that is exactly what has happened.
Don't get me wrong, I'm happy about it, I really am, but it is going to take some getting used to. For starters, Alex's "true love" has a rather questionable background. She never knew her father and she and her siblings were taken away from their mother at a very early age. Not her fault, I know, and Roger and I have always taught the boys that you don't judge someone by the actions of their family.
Apparently he's learned that lesson well. He cherishes his new love in a way I never thought he would, showering her with presents, and making sure she keeps her doctors appointments. He even went so far as to ask us to please watch over her when he has to travel out of town, and he had the NERVE to instruct ME on what type of behavior he expected from me....all the do's and don'ts when dealing with this new woman in his life.
It's almost more than I can take, I'm telling you. But, if I'm being fair, I have to admit that this girl is worth it. She's young and cute, with a charming personality and she loves Alex with her whole heart. She's so grateful for every little thing he does for her, it almost breaks your heart to see it. But, don't go by me...judge for yourself.
I'm happy to introduce Wit Proza, the love of my son's life. (But, you'd better believe I'm taking her to Braum's for a frozen yogurt whether Alex likes it or not!)
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